Kathie Phillips, Author at KidMinspiration

Free Family Ministry Resources

01/28/201501/28/2015 Kathie Phillips

For the past several months, our Family Ministry staff team has met to brainstorm and process what Family Ministry could look like at our church. Two key elements that remain at the center of our discussions are (1) we believe that parents should be the primary influence in their children’s lives and (2) our role as a church is to come alongside families and equip them to be that primary spiritual influence through intentional programming and resources.

I recently took a look at materials from Be:Kids, a fairly new organization that provides free family devotions to use throughout the week to encourage parents to be involved in discipleship within the home. Be:Kids co-founder Meredith Chapuis asked me to take a look at the free resources that they provide for this purpose.

According to their website, Be:Kids’ mission is to partner with the collective church to raise up the future generation of leaders in our community and around the world by cultivating character and confidence in Christ. To teach children to walk in the light of the truth, be rooted deeply in love, encourage each other, embrace their individuality, and to seek God’s will above all else. Their three goals are:

Equip and Empower Parents To Live On Mission;
Invade Communities With Love; and
Make A Generational Change In Society

There are a few facets to their ministry that I love:

Be: Inspired (Blog)

Their blog encourages parents with scripture, reminders about what’s important and prayers. They also feature real families who share their stories of discipling their children.

Be: Intentional (Devotions)

Each week, a new family devotional plan is published. Included are:

The week’s ‘focus’
A memory verse
Lunch box notes
Conversation starters
An application activity
Scripture passages, brief devotional and prayer

What I love is the action plan that comes with the weekly devotional. Sometimes parents who desire to lead a devotional time with their children don’t always know how to do it. And the printable lunch box notes look amazing!

#Be Box

Click the #Be Box image above to take a peek at what was included in January’s box.

Check out the resources for yourself & tell them Kathie sent ya! You can also connect with Be:Kids to stay informed of new resources when they become available.

Website: http://bekidsmobile.com/

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Rest, Growth, Health: Essentials for Ministry Leaders

01/27/201501/27/2015 Kathie Phillips 1 Comment

I love being by the water. Being in such a tranquil place restores my soul like nothing else. A few weeks ago, our entire church staff retreated to Pennsylvania together to worship, eat, play and reflect upon three specific themes: Rest, Growth, and Health.

In November, each staff member was provided a workbook that would help us reflect on these areas in our personal lives as well as our roles here at church. Because our church leadership believes that a healthy staff is imperative to a healthy church culture and a healthy church is vital to our effectiveness in our Kingdom work, they provided questions for personal reflection in these five areas of health: Spiritual, Physical, Emotional, Financial, Vocational.

The exercises and questions were good for me to think through. As I did my work, I realized two prevalent themes in three of the five areas of health. The themes were distractions and excuses. Although I knew I struggle with these areas, it wasn’t until I saw them written on paper several times that I realized they were a common thread running through many of my shortcomings, both personally and professionally.

Another ‘aha’ moment for me was when I asked the question: When do I feel most alive? My answers:

Getting to dream
Working on bigger projects (as part of a team and individually)
Working on my own projects where I have creative control
Creating things

So, in thinking of terms of Rest, Growth, and Health, what does this look like in my life?

REST

I think I do a pretty good job of resting, especially after a busy season. Sometimes what I struggle with is just resting…not entertaining myself or letting someone or something entertain me. Sometimes I struggle with simply resting and resisting the urge to be doing something.

Rest for me looks different at different times. Sometimes I rest alone, catching up on TV shows, reading a good book or magazine, praying and journaling, enjoying a latte from Starbucks, pinning to Pinterest, listening to music or a podcast. Sometimes I rest with others, spending time with my family, having coffee or lunch with a friend, or shopping. Sometimes I simply rest by sleeping.

Here are a few resources that speak to the need for rest:

Hidden in Plain Sight by Steve Adams

The Gift of Sabbath by Danielle Bell

GROWTH

In my opinion, we should never stop wanting to grow and expand our knowledge. It doesn’t matter how old you are – keep growing and learning!

I consider myself a student of kidmin, leadership, and ministry. I want to stay up-to-date on what’s happening in my field. I want to lead well. How do I do that?

I read books, magazines, blogs, articles…anything having to do with kidmin and leadership.
I connect with other leaders. I love spending time with people who do what I do. We have so much to learn from each other.
I attend workshops and conferences. Again, I love connecting with like-minded people but I also need to learn new skills and techniques.
I take risks. Yes, this is scary, but very necessary for growth. God wants to enlarge your borders!

Here are a few resources that speak to the need for growth:

Great Leaders Grow by Ken Blanchard and Mark Miller

Evaluating Yourself for Growth as a Leader by Orange Leaders

10 Steps to Becoming a Better Children’s Ministry Leader in 2015 by Dale Hudson

HEALTH

An article in the Jan/Feb 2015 issue of Kidzmatter Magazine says, “‘Busy’ is the new ‘Fine’.” I’m sure you’ve experience that when you ask someone how they’re doing. The truth is that many of us are not fine. Life is hard. Many of us are depleted spiritually. Many of us are not taking care of our bodies by getting enough rest, eating healthy, exercising and having regular doctor’s appointments. Many of us deal with anxiety and depression. Many of us are desperately trying to make ends meet each month. Many of us are at the end of our ministry rope and are ready to throw in the towel.

Here are a few resources that speak to the need for health:

How Bill Hybels Stays Replenished by Carolyn Burge

Leading On Empty by Wayne Cordeiro

I’d encourage you to download this modified self-evaluation and spend some time honestly evaluating your life.

Join the conversation: What God is teaching you in the areas of Rest, Growth and Health? Let me know by leaving a comment below.

A Valentine’s Giveaway and Deal from What’s in the Bible?

01/26/201501/26/2015 Kathie Phillips 2 Comments

Win a KitchenAid Mixer, Plus Free Printable Valentines

Enter to win a KitchenAid mixer as part of What’s in The Bible?’s Valentine’s Day Family Fun giveaway.

Everyone who enters will also receive a free 3-page download of printable Valentine’s in 3 different designs.

Enter here!
Winners will be selected on January 27th.

Grand Prize:
– KitchenAid Mixer
– Family baking goodie basket
– Entire What’s in the Bible? series

Runner-Up:
– Entire What’s in the Bible? series (DVDs 1-13)

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