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Inside Our Pre-Service Volunteer Huddles

Setting the tone for a successful Sunday morning can happen in a number of ways, but a pre-service volunteer huddle is a vital one. No matter what you call it (huddle, circle-up, VIP meeting, or something else), pre-service huddles have many benefits. Helping your volunteers build a sense of community and ensuring that everyone serving is on the same page with details for the day are just a few.

Of course ‘pre-service’ huddles happen ‘pre-service’. For leaders whose volunteers might already struggle to arrive on time, asking them to arrive earlier might be a hurdle that you don’t want to face. I completely understand. In fact, when we launched our huddles in January 2018, I spent months prior fearing that no one would show up besides my own family! But I was proven wrong. Not only did people show up, we consistently pack the room out!

Casting vision for the reason ‘why’ for the huddles and the end goal is key to getting your team on board. I felt led to begin huddles because I observed our volunteers rushing in and running straight to their classrooms, right past each other, with no connection whatsoever. I knew that had to change, so I took a leap of faith on what has now made our team feel more like family.

Wikipedia defines ‘huddle’ as:

“…the actions of a team gathering together, usually in a tight circle, to strategize, motivate, or celebrate…”

I’d say that this is a good (and accurate) description of our pre-service huddles.

How We Strategize

Time is of the essence, so I usually keep this part pretty static from week to week. Each week, we:

  • highlight what the kids are learning that day
  • review logistics (schedule reminders, special instructions, allergy alerts if we’re serving snacks, etc.)
  • make sure everyone knows where they’re serving, especially if we have substitute leaders
  • review different policies and procedures as needed
  • we spend time in prayer

How We Motivate

Keeping your leaders encouraged and motivated helps them see the value in their role and keeps them around for the long haul. Ways we motivate our leaders include:

  • offering an encouraging word, story, or scripture
  • sharing classroom tips and strategies to help them be successful
  • offering random giveaways (also an incentive for them to attend or arrive early because it’s very random – I’m talking gift cards or small gifts)

How We Celebrate

Ministry is hard, so creating moments to celebrate keeps the energy alive and momentum levels high! We celebrate by:

  • sharing wins
  • acknowledging birthdays, holidays, special days, and accomplishments
  • hearing personal highlights from the week
  • sharing jokes and just laughing together

A Few Additional Points

Every week, we provide coffee, juice, bottled water, and light refreshments for our volunteers and their kids who join us. This expense is factored into my annual budget. (I buy their favorites based on the “Favorite Things” sheet they fill out when they join the team. More on this at the end.)

Our prayer time looks different from week to week. Sometimes I pray; sometimes another leader prays. Sometimes we group people together to pray in pairs or in their serving area groups. Changing this up keeps things fresh while also helping bonds to form.

Our huddles last approximately 5-8 minutes on average. It’s amazing how much you can accomplish in such a short time. Shorter is definitely better than long and drawn out.

On the first Sunday of the month, we take Communion together as a team.

Does everyone attend huddle every week? No, but most do consistently. Is everyone always on time? No. We show grace because things come up last-minute. But is it worth it to gather ahead of serving together? ABSOLUTELY! It’s been a game-changer for us.

On Friday, I’m sharing a link to the “Favorite Things” sheet I mentioned earlier. If you’re not following me on my Facebook page, be sure to do that because that’s where the link will be dropped!

Now it’s your turn…do you offer pre-service huddles? What does yours include?

Time to Update {Review & Giveaway}

If you have ever searched online for quality Children’s Ministry resources for any season, holiday, or volunteer support, then I’m sure you’ve come across Deeper Kidmin. Deeper Kidmin is a site dedicated to providing resources FOR kidmin leaders BY kidmin leaders. Its founder, Brittany Nelson, has been a ministry friend for years, so I was honored to be given the opportunity to review her brand new book, Time to Update.

While many churches were closed to in-person gatherings during the pandemic, they had to quickly step up their digital game to meet kids literally where they were – at home. When most churches resumed in-person gatherings, many Children’s Ministry leaders re-evaluated whether or not to continue their digital offerings because of its success in reaching kids and families. Time to Update is a resource helps leaders in that evaluation process but also helps them think through ways that digital strategies can be incorporated into the discipleship of kids in their ministry.

Throughout each chapter of Time to Update, you’ll take a robust look at the overall discipleship strategy and explore seven different areas to incorporate digital discipleship into every aspect of children’s ministry including safety and security, your website, teaching digital natives, partnering with parents, connecting with volunteers, social media, and administration. 

What I love about Time to Update is that leaders are encouraged to not only continue digital discipleship but to regularly evaluate that digital discipleship. Why? According to Brittany, “…to stay relevant to this generation of kids and families, delivering the gospel message must include technology and a digital approach.”

A digital approach to children’s ministry involves intentionally using technology to enhance and improve a variety of areas within your ministry, from administrative tasks no one ever sees to communication with families to teaching Bible lessons on Sunday mornings. Time To Update will help you be more intentional so that digital discipleship becomes part of your ministry strategy rather than merely a coincidence or afterthought.

I also love that the book places emphasis on NOT starting from scratch but enhancing what you’re already doing. So many great things are happening – with the addition of the great ideas and tips offered in Time to Update, the sky is the limit for reaching kids and families through digital efforts!

You can learn more about the book at Deeper Kidmin or purchase a copy on Amazon! And there’s an added bonus – when you purchase the book, you’ll also gain access to special downloadable resources to help you implement ideas within the book! Plus get the audiobook free when you buy the e-book or the print book.

PRODUCT GIVEAWAY
This is a resource you’ll want to add to your library and guess what?! I’m giving away a copy! Simply email me at kidminspiration@gmail.com and say, “It’s Time to Update!” All entries should be received by 11:59 pm on Thursday, October 5, 2023. One winner will be randomly selected on Friday, October 6, 2023 and notified by email. *Paperback copies can only be mailed to residents in the USA. Those who live outside of the USA will receive an e-book copy.

Also, be sure to check out the next book blog tour stop at nickblevins.com – tell him I sent ya!

Disclosure:
Many thanks to Brittany Nelson for providing a sample of the product for this review. Opinions are 100% my own and NOT influenced by monetary compensation.

No More Manic Mondays!

Mondays don't have to be manic! Here's what my Mondays look like like and how it sets me up for a productive week!

Mondays.  The day of the week many people dread for various reasons.  However, for many others, Mondays offer a start to accomplish new goals and gives a fresh perspective to tackle the week ahead and allows.  You either love ’em or you hate ’em.

Today, I’m sharing a peek into what my Mondays typically look like.  These seven tasks help me to start my week off on the right foot.  While I don’t do every single thing below every Monday, this gives you a general idea of what I block Mondays out for.

FOLLOW UP WITH NOTES FROM SUNDAY

Each Sunday, I carry a clipboard (yes, I’m very old school – I am a ‘pen and paper’ type of gal) with my Sunday volunteer list and blank paper.  I make notes of any upcoming volunteer absences, school performances, special occasions/milestones, prayer requests, supply needs, etc.  If I don’t write it down, I forget!  On Mondays, I transfer these notes to my daily planner and follow-up accordingly.

FOLLOW UP WITH VOLUNTEERS WHO CALLED OUT

Like any kidmin leader knows, rarely a Sunday goes by without a volunteer calling out unexpectedly due to illness (or the illness of a child), traveling or last-minute emergencies.  I follow-up with an email or text, asking for any updates on how they’re feeling, if I can bring a meal, how I might help, etc.  I want my volunteers to know that I truly care about them and that I miss them when they’re not able to serve.

UPDATE THIS WEEKEND’S VOLUNTEER SCHEDULE

Each Monday, I update my volunteer schedule to reflect those who are serving for the upcoming weekend.  This is especially helpful early in the week because I can identify serving opportunities (not “slots” or “holes”) quickly and know exactly what our needs are.  Doing this early in the week also saves me those unexpected surprises and scrambling at the last-minute.

INVEST IN MY LEADERSHIP DEVELOPMENT

In order to grow as a leader, I have to invest in myself.  This could include reading books/blogs/articles, listening to podcasts, viewing webinars or meeting with another leader.  By blocking out this time each week, I am able to invest in myself so that I can pour into others.  See some of my favorite books here and my favorite magazines, websites, social media networks and podcasts here.

MEET WITH VOLUNTEERS AND/OR PARENTS

It is very important for me to spend time with my volunteers and parents outside of Sunday morning.  Nothing makes the beginning of a busy week better than grabbing coffee, breakfast or lunch with a volunteer or parent.  Doing this in a relaxed setting allows for us to have great conversations and get to know each other better. (*Note: this is typically ‘issue’-free.  We meet on Mondays just for fun and fellowship.)

CURRICULUM EDITING

Honestly, this is one of my favorite parts of my week.  I love seeing ‘raw’ curriculum become ‘live’ curriculum that I’ll get to see in real-time!  I’ll share my process for editing our curriculum in a future post, but when I sit down to edit, I edit for the entire month/unit so that I can (1) get an overview for the entire month, (2) set a cohesive tone for the entire month, (3) build on each week based on the previous week, and (4) purchase any needed supplies in one order.

SCHEDULE SOCIAL MEDIA POSTS

I schedule all of our social media posts (Facebook, Twitter and Instagram) for the entire month on the first Monday of each month.  This saves me a HUGE amount of time and gives me one less thing to think about.

TOOLS I USE TO GET THE JOB DONE

Google Docs – I use this to keep track of who is serving when and where – this is a great tool because any necessary changes are made in real-time and I’m able to share the document with others on my team.

Hootsuite – This program allows me to schedule all of my social media posts for the entire month.  Not only can I do this from my computer, but I can use their app on the go.  Very flexible and very easy to use!

2018 At-A-Glance – Yes, I still use a paper planner, mainly because I take great joy in actually checking things off of my to-do list!  This planner is one of my favorites.

Keep the conversation going by leaving a comment: What do your Mondays look like?  

21 Questions to Ask Those You Lead

21 Questions to Ask Those You Lead

I have had the privilege of being a wife and mom for over 2o years now. One of the (many) things I’ve learned during that time is how important it is for me to ask great questions when I communicate with my family. Stress and strain can result in my relationships if I don’t communicate well. Can you relate?

Healthy relationships thrive on being able to reciprocate good, healthy communication strategies. My mom refers to this as ‘tossing the ball back’ when having a conversation. I speak, you listen.  You speak, I listen.

Sure, there are lots of ingredients that go into having a conversation with someone (talking, listening, eye contact, body language, tone, etc.) but I think some of it boils down to asking great questions. Great questions can often determine the course of the conversation. Some conversations can come to a screeching halt before they even start if we’re not careful!  I certainly haven’t mastered this but I have made significant strides in this department. For example, I now ask open ended questions that don’t garner a simple ‘yes’ or ‘no’ response.  Sometimes I push the “How did you feel about that?” question and sometimes I don’t.  More often than not, I find that pausing to pray before speaking and asking God for wisdom has saved me quite a few times!  I’ve learned, too, that it’s not always what I’m saying but how I’m saying it.

This same principle applies to ministry relationships.  Effective communication is vital in leading others and to the health, growth and success of our ministry.  In addition, good communication develops trust between a leader and those they care for.

If you want to engage someone in conversation, you have to be intentional about setting both of parties up for success.  Here are just a few questions to help get those important conversation started:

Questions for Your Staff

  1. What do we do well?
  2. What can be improved?
  3. Who can we invite to be part of our ministry team?
  4. How does this program or event fit into our ministry vision and goals?
  5. Who should we invite to be part of this discussion?  Who needs to be around the table?
  6. How can I pray for you?
  7. How can we grow together as a team?

Questions for Your Volunteers

  1. What worked well?
  2. What can be improved?
  3. How can we better equip you to lead well?
  4. Is there anyone you know who would be a great addition to our team?
  5. We are thinking of [insert idea].  What are your initial thoughts about that?
  6. Do you feel challenged in your role right now?
  7. How can I pray for you?

Questions for Parents/Families

  1. How would you describe our ministry?
  2. How can our ministry better serve our church’s families?
  3. What can we do to better equip you to disciple your family?
  4. What conversations are your family having?  Where are these conversations taking place?
  5. How can we pray for you?
  6. What is your child struggling with?
  7. How can we better strengthen the relationship between your home and the church?

Of course, there are risks involved when questions are asked.  We see vulnerabilites in people and become vulnerable ourselves.  We also have to be open to receive feedback (both positive and negative) that might trigger a certain response.  But think about this…how much are you and I missing out on because important, strategic questions aren’t being asked?

Keep the conversation going! What questions do you find effective to leading well?  Share them below or join the discussion on our Facebook page!

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