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Celebrate the One

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Photo Credit: justwhatjessisupto.blogspot.com

Like many other churches, we started our ministry year still praying for God to send committed volunteers to serve in our Children’s Ministry.  Each week, God has provided for our needs but as the ministry leader, it is my job to ensure that screened, trained, committed, Christ-following volunteers show up to care for and teach the children He brings to us.

A few weeks in to the new ministry year, I personally emailed 31 people who I thought would be a good match for our ministry.  (I scoured our church database and looked for people who might be a good fit based on their ability, passion and spiritual gifts.)  I shared the vision of the ministry, how God has blessed us with an abundance of children this year and how I felt that God placed them on my heart to invite them to our Children’s Ministry team.

Within a few days, I heard back from 6 people – 3 “no’s – this is not a good season for me”; 1 “let me pray about it” and 2 “I’m interested – I want to learn more.”  I was so excited not only about the 3 promising responses but about all 6 responses.  This told me two things:

1. People really do read my emails; and

2. They considered, possibly for even a brief moment, my request (even though some declined).

When I shared this news with my CM Leadership Team, one very sweet team member said, “How I appreciate your excitement when the total reply rate was only 19%!”  Again, this told me two things:

1. I have some really smart people on my team – I wouldn’t even have thought about calculating any type of percentage; and

2. An excited leader can energize a team member, even when results are less than desired.

When responding back to my treasured friend, I said, “If God sends one, I’m excited!” [We have since recruited 8 new volunteers to our team!]

There is power in one.  Celebrating a one-year old’s birthday is often a big deal, but how come we don’t celebrate more “ones“?One example from the Bible come to mind when I think of “one”:

Luke 15:1-7 tells us of the story of the lost sheep.  It reads in part:

“If a man has a hundred sheep and one of them gets lost, what will he do? Won’t he leave the ninety-nine others in the wilderness and go to search for the one that is lost until he finds it? And when he has found it, he will joyfully carry it home on his shoulders. When he arrives, he will call together his friends and neighbors, saying, ‘Rejoice with me because I have found my lost sheep.’ In the same way, there is more joy in heaven over one lost sinner who repents and returns to God than over ninety-nine others who are righteous and haven’t strayed away! (Luke 15:3-7, NLT, bold and italics mine)

This passage of scripture reminded me how important it is for me to be a leader who celebrates the “one“.  The one leader who arrives early.  The one volunteer who stays late.  The one child who is more energetic than the others.  The one child with special needs.  The one child who savors every word that you say.  The one volunteer who serves when life circumstances are difficult.  The one volunteer who remembers to ask how you’re doing.  The one family who shares a story of how what you do has impacted them.  The one volunteer who over-prepares.  The one child whose faith story reminds you why you give your life to ministry week after week.

Be the type of person – Mom, Dad, leader, volunteer – who celebrates the one.

Consider leaving me a comment below and tell me how can you celebrate the “one” this week – at home, at work, in ministry! 

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Athens VBS: How One Family Was Impacted

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Last week, our VBS (or Summer Bible Camp as it’s known in our church) wrapped up.  (You can read about our VBS in earlier posts.)  The end of camp was very bittersweet for me because of the amazing stories of how God was working not only in the hearts of children but of volunteers, too.  I didn’t want the enthusiasm to end.

One of those stories was shared with me after camp on Day 2.  The mom of a camper, who also served as a volunteer, granted her permission to share their story with all of you.  Enjoy!

This week has been unbelievable and transforming as Central Presbyterian has been turned into Athens and we have been learning about Paul’s bold journey to share his faith!  It has been life changing and unbelievable.
 
On Monday night, I was putting [my son] to bed and reading the devotional, Jesus Calling Bible Storybook, with him.  We were looking for stories about Paul and came upon the story where Lydia believes from Acts 16.  The storybook bible had John 14:6 “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me”. It then went on to say that as hard as you try, you cannot get to heaven on our own.  Everyone does some bad things – mommies, daddies, teachers and boys and girls.  There is no place in heaven for sin, and this is why you need Jesus in your heart.  I am your only way to heaven says Jesus.  I am the one who washes away your sins and opens the way to God the Father.  This started the most amazing conversation with me and [my son].  The door was opened because he has been fascinated by the daily Summer Bible Camp skits with Paul and Timothy and how brave Paul is, and how Paul wants to tell EVERYONE he meets about the one true God (Yes! It’s true!).  The devotional we read paired up so beautifully with the teachings in SBC this week.The Greeks worshiped so many false gods and statues that it has been such a privilege and a gift to talk about our living God and how He LOVES us.  Each day keeps getting better and better.  Anyways, [my son] went on to say that he believes in Jesus and wants to have him in his heart.  So, we prayed together and then he wrote in his Bible the sweetest note.  I have attached a picture so you could see his spelling and handwriting: “Dear Jeses, Plaes come in my heart bcuaes I Love You. Love [boy’s name] July 8 2013
Actual letter written by the writer's son
Actual letter written by the writer’s son
 
It melts my heart thinking about it.  It has been so fun and easy to boldly tell these children about Jesus and God’s love and what eternity means (forever).  We heard today about how Paul had been Saul and how we truly need Jesus to save us.  The verse on the back of our tee shirts was John 3:16 which has all new meaning to me now.  It’s so exciting.
 
My verses to share with you today are two:
1 John 4:4 You are of God, little children, and have overcome them, because He who is in you is greater then he who is in the world.
 
1 John 4:15-16 Whoever confesses that Jesus is the Son of God, God abides in him, and he in God. And we have known and believed the love that God has for us, God is love, and he who abides in love abides in God, and God in him.

This story gives me goosebumps!  I’m so thankful for the opportunity to see this unfold and walk with this family long after camp is over.

How did this story impact you?  Do you have a similar story of transformation as a result of VBS?  Share below!

What More Could I Have Done?

For the past several weeks, I have seen several friends and ministry colleagues come under serious spiritual attack.  While each circumstance is different, they are all trusting God for the next steps after seeing dreams become shattered pieces of what could’ve or should’ve been.

Earlier this week, I read a passage of scripture that made me ponder the feeling of defeat.  The passage was Isaiah 5:1-7.

“What more could I have done to cultivate a rich harvest?  

Why did my vineyard give me wild grapes when I expected sweet ones?”

Isaiah 5:4

Have you been in a place like that, a place of disappointment and heartbreak?  Have you wondered why all of your hard work returned a ‘loss’ rather than a ‘win’?  I have, both personally and professionally.  After all, none of us work to fail.  We invest and work hard to see results – favorable results.

One thing that I remind my children’s ministry team is that while we can plant the seed, it’s up to God to grow it in His time.  We might not see the results right away; we may never see the results.  But that doesn’t mean that we should give up.

If you feel like throwing in the towel because an event that took weeks of planning flopped, leaders that you invested in turned against you, a door was closed, you don’t get the recognition that you feel you deserve, you were removed from a cherished ministry position or job, the child you raised in the church is no longer interested in following Christ, or you aren’t as far along in life as you thought you should be, don’t give up.  Be encouraged:  God will give you the strength you need to endure every season of your life, the highs and the lows.  Lean into Him, do what He has called you to do and trust Him for the results.

What are you trusting God for right now?  Do you believe that He has your best interest at heart?

{Guest Post}: I Never Imagined – Inner City KidMin (Part 3)

Note from Kathie:  I met Colleen Smith at an Orange-sponsored Chick-fil-A meet up last year and I was so fascinated by her story.  I knew that one day, I’d love to share her story with others.  Colleen shares additional insight into her story of inner city Children’s Ministry today in the last of 3 parts.  You can read Part 1 here and Part 2 here.  I pray you’ll be both blessed and inspired.

Kathie Phillips:  Thank you so much for sharing your incredible story with us.  Can you share a little bit more about the ministry that you do through your church directly in your neighborhood?

Colleen Smith:  The ministry that takes place consistently within my neighborhood is a Wednesday evening kids program called Kids Club.  We meet every Wednesday evening from 6:45-8:30 with anywhere from 20-50 kids, depending on the night.  We have a service (complete with worship), a time of teaching and small group time. This is the place where the kids get to hear about Jesus, hang out in a safe place, and watch the lives of other Christ-followers.  They also get to ask questions and explore what having Christ in their lives can and will look like.  I also host various winter break, spring break and summer camps along with the help of missions teams that come to Baltimore to partner with us in ministry.

There is a lot of unplanned ministry that happens as well, such as coffee with neighbors, lunch with neighborhood moms, Bible study with local teen and young adult girls, and dinners with Ms. Colleen at least twice a month.  Almost weekly, my house becomes a revolving door of kids around 3 p.m.everyday, whether it’s to play basketball, chat or just hang out. Other ministries that I do include homeless outreach and a street outreach to prostitutes.

KP:  Can you share how you, a Caucasian, have been received in your primarily African-American neighborhood?

CS:  At first moving into the neighborhood was an adjustment for both myself and my neighbors.  The kids warmed up quickly, but the parents had a difficult time at first.  It’s hard when people think that you’re just moving into the neighborhood to change the world, but once they realized that was not my motive at all, they became my family. They realized that I was moving in to live life with them, to love them through the hard times and celebrate with them in the good times. I have also gained more grandparents, older brothers (aka: BODY GUARDS) and friends than I could have ever imagined. I get invited to family reunions, birthday parties and family events. Last year when I had my accident and spent months recovering from a head injury, I was taken care of by the people in my community. Quite honestly, I’ve been humbled and have learned more from them than I could probably ever teach them.

KP:  What scripture verses have encouraged you when you feel down about the circumstances around you?

CS:  Jeremiah 29:11- “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”

Deuteronomy 31:6 – “Be strong and courageous. Do not fear or be in dread of them, for it is the LORD your God who goes with you. He will not leave you or forsake you.”

Isaiah 41:10 – “Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God.  I will strengthen you, I will help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.”

These are just a few of the verses I lean into that have gotten me through some of the toughest times personally and in ministry!

KP:  What advice would you give to those who feel God may be calling them to serve in inner city kidmin but may be afraid to do so?

CS:  I would tell them to be open to what God wants them to do, but also spend lots of time in prayer.  I spent years in prayer before God ever made any moves in my life.  Don’t be scared about the plans God has for your life.  He always knows what’s best for you!  Also, find local inner city ministries and spend some time getting to know the ministries, volunteering and praying about what God would have for you.

Many thanks to Colleen Smith for sharing about the great work she is doing in Baltimore, Maryland, which by the way is home to our Super Bowl XLVII Champions, the Baltimore Ravens. 🙂

Is God asking you to step outside of your comfort zone in a particular area?  What can you take away from Colleen’s story that might help you do that?

Colleen Smith headshotOriginally from Wichita, Kansas Colleen Smith moved to Baltimore in 2001 to become a nanny. In 2003, she accepted Christ and her heart for the inner city began to develop. Over the past few years she’s quit her full-time job and raised support as a missionary to Baltimore City. These days you can find her living and serving in East Baltimore as the local missionary for Captivate Church (captivatechurch.com)  She can be found online at www.colleensamantha.org as well as Facebook & Twitter.  If you’d like more information on her ministry she can be contacted via email colleen@captivatechurch.com

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